Your busy life can often get in the way when it comes to life in the bedroom. The kids need you, you have had a bad day at work, and you can never seem to get enough sleep. All of this can kill your libido pretty quickly. Here are 8 ways to get your motor running and revamp your s*x life.
1. Plan ahead. Think about s*x with your partner early in the day and prepare for it. Get yourself in the mood early on by spraying some of his favorite cologne on your shirt so that you can smell him all day.
2. Find a cozy spot in your house and cuddle up with your honey. This is a great way for you to share intimacy and often leads to something a little more.
3. Switch up your outfit when you go to bed. Get away from your everyday sweats and put on a flirty nightgown or one of his t-shirts. It doesn’t have to be super s*xy it just needs to be a change.
4. One of the biggest obstacles that couples face when it comes to s*x is exhaustion. Take a nap at some point in the day so you are not so tired.
5. Turn off all electronics. Put away the cell phones and the laptops. We are all so connected to our technology that sometimes we forget about our partners. Focus your attention on them instead.
6. Making eye contact is a huge turn on for most guys so take the time to stop and look deep into his eyes.
7. Take some time and have a little snack and some cocktails with your partner. Forget about the fact that you are a mom or a career woman and enjoy your time together. It will bring you much closer as a couple.
8. If you find that your time in bed is too boring have a discussion with your partner. Make a list of some things that you haven’t tried yet and see what you are open to doing together.