Many women find themselves underwhelmed or dissatisfied in bed. Is this because they just aren’t into it? Are there too many distractions? Are they not attracted to their partner anymore? Many times it is none of these. It is often because the guy is lazy. Many men think that once they are done that is that and if they haven’t been able to get their partner to climax they may as well just get theirs and roll over.
All too often men think that if their partner cannot achieve an [email protected] it is their partner’s fault and not theirs, when in reality it is because they really aren’t trying hard enough to help their partner along. Even if the woman tells them beforehand that it could be a tough task to help them get off the man will give the excuse that not all women have an [email protected] so if she can’t it isn’t a big deal. What they don’t seem to realize is that sometimes it is a very big deal.
Being with someone is all about equality and this includes equality in bed too. Why should he always get the satisfaction from s*x and you are left dissatisfied and frustrated? It seems that many men need to be educated on what a woman really wants in bed and how to be able to help her get there. Some men already have all of the “education” they need but they just are not willing to take the time to really help their partner out.
Ladies, if your man is being lazy and you are left feeling like you have wasted precious time while in bed, let him know. Tell him that he is being lazy and that you would like to get something out of it too!