Women everywhere have their favorite bedroom toy. It becomes a constant companion to some, especially those who are single. Using it too much however can actually ruin your s*x life and make things miserable for your partner if you have one, so beware!
When you bust out that toy from your top drawer you know that you are going to have a good time. You know that within a few minutes you are going to have an [email protected] But how about when you hop into bed with your partner? Do you have that same experience? Of course not. You cannot expect that your partner will bring you to climax in just a few minutes like your bedroom buddy does. The problem is that when you use a v!brator too much it ruins you. It can ruin your frame of mind when it comes to s*x altogether. You may end up thinking that you just want your toy because nothing that your partner is doing is working.
Do you sneak off and get the job done yourself after your partner is finished? If you do you may need an intervention. It is time to put the v!brator away for a while. Put it out of sight and out of mind. Put it somewhere that you do not have easy access too. It is harder to overdo it when you can’t just reach over to the nightstand and grab it.
Eventually you will be able to get your anatomy used to the human touch again instead of the feel of rubber or plastic. Your partner will be happy too as they won’t feel like they are failing you. You can always let them join in when you are using your v!brator every now and then, but most of the time let them do the work.