It is hard when you are overweight. Society has programmed us to think that only skinny girls are beautiful and that is that. However for those of us who feel this way, Jes Baker has something to tell you. Fat girls should love themselves no matter what. It’s okay if you have a little extra on you. It doesn’t make you any less beautiful or less worthy of love, especially love from yourself.
There are many different things that overweight women either will not admit or refuse to accept because they believe that they are overweight and that is all people see them as and nothing more. This is not true however. Everyone, even the skinniest of skinny girls, has fat rolls when they bend their stomachs. There is no way to avoid it, it is a part of our body.
You do not need to go overboard with exercise in order to feel good about yourself. While getting exercise is definitely important you shouldn’t have to feel like you need to do it every single day just so that you can feel good about yourself. You can still be committed to becoming healthier without overdoing it.
You are beautiful no matter what your shape is. You are beautiful because of what your shape is. True beauty is on the inside and your personality will go a long way in how others view you. Obviously outside appearances are important to most people, but how you carry yourself and how you feel about yourself can boost your attractiveness to others.
Finally, Jes states that yes ladies, even if you are overweight it is okay to be in love with yourself. You may not think that you should do it because society tells you that you need to change who you are to fit it, but it is okay. Fall in love with who you are and even with your body the way it is. You are going to be in that body forever even if it changes over the years, so love it no matter what it looks like.