Many women report that they have faked [email protected] and still do. There are many reasons for doing so, among them are: not wanting to hurt your man’s feelings or bruise his ego. Some women say that they fake it because they are just not enjoying themselves or they realize “it” is not going to happen so they just want it to end.
Here are four reasons why you may want to reconsider faking it:
1. It is a lie – No matter what you tell yourself about faking it, it is a lie and there is no way around that. To have a healthy relationship, couples need to have honest and open communication.
2. If he is man enough to seduce you to have intercourse with him or to be your husband or partner, he is man enough to handle the fact that he didn’t make your toes curl.
Let’s face it; some people are not great in bed and you don’t know until you’re actually in bed with them. Even so, it is better to just say you’re not enjoying yourself and stop, rather than fake it to end the not-so-enjoyable experience.
3. It’s not all about [email protected] with everyone or every time. Sometimes the closeness and intimacy are enough and that is what it was about. Expecting to climax every time can be realistic for some couples but for some it is neither the motive nor the expectation and it is not realistic for them.
4. You’re creating an epidemic of men who are lousy in bed walking around thinking “I’m the man!”. This serves no one. He is deluded and the women he tells “I can rock your world” are in for a horrible let down.
Isn’t it better to just tell the truth and then maybe start the process of learning to please each other without all the fake howling and screaming?