Home-wreckers Website: Site Shames “the other woman”

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Young woman upset with man on phoneBy: Krystle Crossman

Have you ever been with someone who has cheated on you? What were you feeling when you found out? You were probably pretty angry at your partner, but also angry at the woman that he cheated with. There is a website that can help you vent your frustrations and expose her for being a homewrecker at the same time, although will it really solve anything?

ShesAHomewrecker.com and the Facebook page for the site are definitely not short on followers. The Facebook page alone has over 240,000 fans. The basis of the site is that you can expose the “other woman”. You can post your story, her name, her location, her photo, and sometimes even her address or phone number. You can let the world know who she is and what she has done. Women also use the site to get advice on how to retaliate and express their concern that their partner is cheating.

Most of the postings that you see on the site and Facebook page are directed at the mistresses but very little are directed at the cheating partner. It almost makes the page seem petty and juvenile. Is it really solving any of your problems by doing this? Does shaming another person make things better long-term or is it just a short-term release that may leave you feeling like a schmuck later on?

Publicly shaming someone is more of a waste of energy on your part than anything else. What would your family think if they saw your postings that are trashing another person publicly? They would probably be ashamed of your behavior no matter what the situation is. Before you go around bad-mouthing someone else think about the consequences of your actions and focus your energy more on your partner and your relationship instead of condemning someone else.

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  1. I just want to say that yeah she may have something to do with having an affair with him but its him that has made it possible…I don’t get mad at her she probably don’t even know me & vice versa…I realize if he is that low of a man to do a woman like that it will be a matter of time when he does it to her, so really no one is missing out on anything! That goes for the women that are doing good men wrong, that is why it is hard to find a great man because of all the dogs in this world…that goes for men & women!

  2. Wtf? If your partner is cheating exposing the “homewrecker” is not the answer. How about not blasting your business all over the web and find out why your partner cheated? Apparently, he/she is just not into your simple azz. How about leaving the cheater? Why would the cheater want to stay after you blasted y’alls business for the world to see and laugh and you? And I can’t believe they would allow you to post the other person’s business like that, address, phone, pic, etc. Facebook needs their azz kicked and sued! Cause not all cheaters state they are in another relationship. Duh!

    • A WOMAN HAVE TO BE WOMANLESS TO WANT TO EXPLOIT ANOTHER WOMAN’S PERSONAL BUSINESS LIKE THAT. TRUTH BE TOLD,THAT MAN BELONGS TO NO ONE BUT GOD. WIPE YOUR EYES, PICK UR HEAD, SHAKE IT OFF, DUST YOURSELF OFF, FIND OUT WHY YOU KEEP FALLING FOR A NO GOOD MAN. IT IS NO ONE FAULT BUT YOUR OWN.

      • FIRST OF ALL HOW IS IT THE WOMAN’S FAULT? SHE’S NOT COMMITED IN THE RELATIONSHIP HE IS. CHECK YOUR MAN NOT HE OTHER WOMAN CAUSE SHE’S NOT MARRIED HE IS. ALSO SHE MUST BE LACKING IN THE BED IS PROBABLY WHY HE STEPPED OUT. WOMEN TRY TO CONTROL AH NIGGA WITH THEIR POOM POOM LIKE HOLDING BACK FOR A WEEK OR SO WHEN THEY GET MAD. U HOLD BACK, WE GO GET IT ON THE SIDELINES

  3. This article is bullshit. Who are you to chastise a woman scorned? There’s a website for cheating men called Don’t Date Him, or something like that. Why shouldn’t there be one for the women they cheat with? Back in the day a cheating woman would get her ass whooped and possibly killed. I think it’s a step in the right direction to shame her on the internet and keep it moving. If you don’t want to be shamed, keep your vagina to yourself. I don’t understand why it’s any harder than that.

  4. Yeah I remember when Gabby Union lived across the hall from me and my Belizean boyfriend she found it convenient to mess with him, until I threw him out and she had no further use for him.

  5. Sharon Perrotta on

    There’s A WHOLE LOT OF TRUTH in The saying”A Man can only go as far as a Woman let’s him”….These women, young and old alike NEED TO HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES AND EACH OTHER!!!!! Problem Solved….SCORPIOGRANNY

  6. 1st of all 75% percent of African American relationships are unwed., Meaning most male or female DON’T have a commitment to devote their lifetime together in the 1st place… NEVER hosted the site but willing to wage there’s “ratchetness like baby mamma-daddy, casual uncommitted, unprotected s.e.x acquaintances,… We’re talking Facebook am I right?…

  7. Oh please. This sort of thing happens everyday. Believe me, a website with a story about the other woman is not going to stop so called “homewreckers” Who cares?? No one except the one being cheated on. She will probably get 5 minutes worth of satisfaction by posting on this website but the affair is probably still in full force.

  8. Back in the day, and not so very long ago AND STILL in effect in some States in this country, is a law called Alienation of Affection. You can SUE the other man/woman that is having an affair with your spouse. If they know he/she is married, you can sue them b/c marriage is legally binding by a contract. Personally, this has happened to me. I talked to the person having the affair w/my husband and she was a real piece of work. Cheating on her husband with my husband thinking is was okay. They were BOTH at fault. But as a woman, I think we all know what it feels like to be hurt that way so why in the world do we continue to do it to each other??? I can’t speak for men. I’ve read all the articles, watched all the talk shows, even sought therapy….I’m sure there are good, FAITHFUL men out there, but I really wish women would start standing up for one another instead of stabbing each other in the back.

  9. Any time I have had an issue with my exes cheating, my issue was with him. I never cared to talk to the other woman UNLESS she knew that he was in a relationship. At that point, my issue was with the both of them. Even then, I still wouldn’t act crazy and try to fight. I’d leave them to do their business together because I don’t have time to be with a man that will step out on me when I wouldn’t do that to him… no matter how difficult things get. Women who expose the other woman and not the man are petty. Most of the time the other woman doesn’t even know he’s in a relationship! Get your life together and stop wasting your time trying to ruin someone else’s who “ruined yours”. If anything they did you a favor. Give him the two fingers and be on your way.

    • I believe this site is about women who KNOW the man is married/in a “committed” relationship. This is just another avenue where women are trying to get through to other women who think (1) its okay to be with another woman’s husband, and (2) to TRY to get through to women that we need to stick together on this issue and do whatever you can to turn this thinking around. To ignore it is to endorse it. Accountability is the key word here. Everyone should be held accountable for their actions. If you don’t have time to work toward raising better women and being a better woman who treats other women with the respect you expect, then go on. You’re either part of the problem or part of the solution.

  10. I posted a homewrecker on this site, and trust me I don’t have an ounce of remorse. I said like others that I would never take my anger out on the other woman if my husband ever cheated on me, that is until it happened. The woman taunted her affair in my face, and relentelessly pursued my husband despite of me telling her to back off, granted my husband allowed himself to be pursued, and I was very angry with him. But at what point does morality fall on the mistresses part in the affair. What should they walk away unscathed after being part in destroying a family. You reap what you sow, and for this her profile was posted on this site, and I hope her life gets ruined like she ruined mine. Will this solve anything, probably not but it felt damn good! Lol!

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