No one knows your body better than you do. If you want to teach your man how to pleasure you in a way that normally only you can, you need to learn how to hit that spot every time yourself. Getting to know your body and know what pleasures you most will help you to have some of the best solo s*x that you can and will also help when you are with your man.
Many women view [email protected] as something that is taboo or something that they shouldn’t talk about. In fact it is something that all women should be doing as it is a great way to learn about your body, relieve stress, and it can help you get to sleep too!
The first step to improving your satisfaction is to put away the v!brator. You won’t need it for the first few minutes at least. You need to prepare your mind before you get into anything. Light some candles, get some soft music playing, and just relax. You can fantasize in your head or you can watch an adult film if that is your thing. It is best to be turned on before you touch.
Once you have gotten yourself warmed up, try giving yourself a massage. You can massage your neck, your thighs and anywhere that won’t immediately take you over the edge. After some massage time you can grab the v!brator, if you wish. Try to use one that focuses on your internal g-spot instead of the cl!toris. It will be more prominent if you are turned on first. Find a v!brator that is curved and point the curve towards your navel once it is inside.
If you aren’t into trying to find the internal g-spot, no problem. The cl!toris is fine too. It is really about what you want and what you know is good for you. Toys may not be your thing either and that is fine as well. Mix up your positions and do what feels good. Just make sure that you are in the right frame of mind before you touch!