How To Heal After a Horrible Relationship


horrible relationshipBy: Krystle Crossman

Ending a relationship is tough even if it was a bad relationship to start with. Just like any other loss there needs to be a recovery and grieving period. Here are some tips to help you to get back on track after a messy break-up.

1. Cry. Throw a little pity party for yourself. You suffered a loss. Even if the relationship wasn’t a good one, you still worked hard to try and make it work, and when it doesn’t you may feel like you have failed somehow. So go ahead and let the tears flow. It is a natural way to deal with a loss. After the pity party is over, grab some ice cream and a friend and watch movies until the sun comes up. Just make sure that you have your pity part and then move on; don’t stay there.

2. What happened is not your fault. It was a bad relationship that was probably doomed from the start. Forgive yourself. You cannot change it once it is over, so you may as well let it go. You can now learn from the experience and know what not to look for in your next partner.

3. Things happen for a reason, even terrible relationships. Accept the fact that it just wasn’t meant to be.

4. Don’t look at yourself in a negative light. If you do it is time to change that. You need to learn to love yourself first. If you can’t learn to love who you are despite any flaws that you may think you have, no one else will be able to love you either because you won’t let them. Make a list of all of the things that you want to avoid in your next relationship and things that you didn’t like about your last one. When you look over the list it will remind you that it was a place that you weren’t meant to be and you deserve better.



  1. Much ado about nothing. After a bad break up (is there a such thing as a GOOD break up, blogger??) buy a good vibrator with a good klitt stimulator, and rotating head, a bottle of wine, and two quarts of Haagen Daas chocolate chip mint ice cream, a bottle of pepsi, a bag of oreos or chips ahoy cookies (for the weed smokers a “j” or two is acceptable),a big cooking spoon and a bucket or trash can. Get a bowl, put ALL the ice cream in the bowl, pour the Pepsi over the ice cream and mash up the oreos or chips ahoy in the ice cream and soda mix, with the big cooking spoon. Eat as much as you can stand, while drinking your wine out the bottle (this is no time to be classy)and/or smoking the joint (if you smoke). Turn on some good porn (not white people porn corny as hell) I’m talking some hot black porn (threesome porn is hot, two chicks and a dude), turn on your vibrator and go to work. Repeat process until you’re either sick as a dog or so drunk you can’t stand. If you throw up you can grab your bucket or trash and let loose. When you wake up with a hangover and a sour stomach and the runs, call in sick from work, and spend the rest of the day feeling like hell. The next day you’ll feel 100% better, realizing you felt worse from the ice cream, soda and cookies, wine, weed, than you did from the break up, and you’ll have a brand new outlook on life!!! It works!

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