Is He Just Using You For $ex? Here Are The Signs


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You may think that everything is fine and dandy in a relationship, or other times you may suspect that you are just being used for s*x and there is nothing more to it. Here are five signs that you should watch out for before you jump into bed with someone and end up hurt.

1. Have you ever met his friends? If not that could be a very large red flag for you. If he is truly in the relationship because he is happy with you and is proud to be with you, there is no reason that he wouldn’t want you to get to know his friends a little better.

2. If your relationship is one-sided you may be heading for trouble. If you think back, can you remember a time when he did something for you or are you the one that is always cooking, cleaning, and buying him things but there is never the courtesy of reciprocation.

3. You like to hear that you are beautiful or smoking hot, but what about compliments to your personality of something that you do that is cute? If your guy only compliments your looks then you may want to start looking elsewhere.

4. When you really need support or someone to lean on and you are in a relationship you will usually go to your significant other. But what if he is never around? If he doesn’t want to be there for the emotional happenings than he shouldn’t be there for the bedroom happenings either.

5. If the only thing you ever do in bed is role play then you just may be being used. If he is always trying to pretend that you are someone else other than yourself he may not really be liking your for who you truly are.



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  2. Why on earth would a self-respecting woman CONTINUE to “do” for a man who didn’t ever reciprocate?

    NEWS FLASH: You cannot buy love or affection! Hell, you can’t even RENT it!

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  5. Great article… excellent article… WAKE-UP BLACK-WOMAN… don’t wrestle with your mind, stop playing with your head, smell the coffee, look at the light, tap into your spirit aka: womens intuition all those will never lie to you. Stop being a garbage disposal only used for him to empty his nut-sac into. Stop allowing them to plug into you and steal away your virtue. Your virtue is what sustains your life’s energy source that comes straight from your God. That energy source feeds your children, pays your bills, keeps your body and complexion clean and wholesome, keeps your mind and spirit focused on where your God has created you to make it to your destiny. Black women!!! You do matter!!! Black women!!! WE ALL MATTER!!! WE ARE THE HEAD AND NOT THE TAIL, WE ARE ABOVE ONLY AND NOT BEANEATH… MY BLACK SISTERS *(It is we who carry the “WOMBS” to pro-create mother earth) given to us by our God and father “JESUS CHRIST” our way of LIFE…

    • Dianna if you stop referring to God in human terms,as
      Father, Jesus as God, when he was only a man/ messenger of God,like many other Prophets of God, someone might listen to you, God is not human, male, or Jesus.

      • @Clarice

        I agree with Dianna cuz God is my “EVERYTHING”, if your stuck and can’t get pass… that’s your own personal storm, but there are more important issues at hand then sisters always trying to tare other sisters down. We are out here being clobbered by our own blackmen, where have you been hiding your head at. Peace-out

          • @Clarice…
            and visa versa… and still your point is? What does your “HEAD IN THE SAND” have anything to do with her message, cuz her message is very clear and to the point, but you sound like a religeous church-folk. We know our alphabets PEACE OUT

  6. STOP GIVING GOD’S WOMAN AWAY TO AN EVIL ENTITY THAT WILL NOT LOVE YOU BACK… AN EVIL ENTITY THAT ONLY COMES TO KILL STEAL AND DESTROY GOD’S GREAT PLANS FOR YOUR LIFE. Satan comes in many forms, and he will us whom-ever will yield their body / vessel to him… The spirit of lust hates the spirit of love, you must understand they are not one in the same. Love is God, “LUST IS THE OPPOSITE OF OUR GOD…

  7. God is the Creator of humanity, but not human, this is part of the reason women see men as god from this very same brainwashing.God created the African woman as the first human creation, but this fact has been overlooked by religious patriarchy.

    • @CLARICE first off I’m not RELIGIOUS at all… second does everything have to always be so [email protected] like toast-masters just to get a message across… plezzz One thing Im not is spiritually clueless and I have enough spiritual knowledge and sense to know and understand everybody is not where I am, and I “REBUKE” the devil and his memos for trying to kill off the (MESSAGE) this morning. .. Its about the message not religion and you got it Clarice.

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