Some women believe that their man never watches p*0rn. Never. Of course some of these women are naïve as most men watch it. The problem is that they have to hide the fact that they watch it because they are afraid that she is going to freak out if she catches them. While not all women do, many will think that he is either:
– Cheating on her
– Would rather be with someone else
– Is a pervert
– Doesn’t care about her
– Isn’t as s*xually interested in her as he may lead her to believe
Most of the time these feelings of insecurity are just that…feelings. But when this happens there are a lot of women who will insist that they go to couples therapy to “fix” his “problem”. There are some men who do have a real problem with p*0rn such as watching way too much of it or letting it destroy normal relationships, but a majority of men just watch it because they can. And then when they are found out, they are shamed for it. One therapist says at this point the woman can either determine that her guy is a selfish bastard or can say that he has a medical disease, “p*0rn addiction”.
Many women will say that the reason they have a problem with their man pleasuring himself to an adult film is because they are right there, ready and available for him, but he would rather have fun with someone else. Many times these women that say they are available are the ones who really aren’t but think they are!
Some men will give up adult movies for their partner and some will even stop [email protected] for her. Then there are others who will say that they are giving it up and do it in secret like and ashamed teen. Either way, the woman who is shaming her partner has already made her mind up about him.