When faced with a break-up many people decide that they do not want to be around the opposite s*x for a while. Then there are people who are like Christine Whelan. When she ended her long-term relationship at the age of 40 she realized that it was time for her to get out there and have a lot of fun with no strings attached and that is exactly what she did.
Charlene decided that now that she was single, 2013 was going to be her year of “fun”. She went out actively looking for friends with benefits that she could have steamy and torrid affairs with. She prefaces her story by telling the readers that she is 40 and overweight. She says that there are people out there who are not into her body type and she is okay with that, but there were others that were okay with it and she hooked up with those people. A lot of those people!
While she has been on the lookout for partners Charlene has noticed that there are certain types of men who will sleep with larger women. There are those who are attracted to large women but are ashamed of it, those that have sleeping with a large woman on their bucket list, those who have a fetish for large women, and those who are truly attracted to a large and confident woman. Charlene likes the latter because they are truly into it. She found one man who she thought was completely out of her league because he was built like a Greek God, but after they ended a night of fun she asked him why he had been attracted to her. He told her that confidence was s*xy.
She states that while the life that she is living is not for everyone it is something that if you are up for it should experience it and be confident in who you are.