Most Men Want $ex When Their Woman Is On Her Period; Here’s How To Enjoy It

Couple lying in bed togetherBy Krystle Crossman

When it is that time of the month, you probably feel a lot of things, but $exy is just not one of them. However, it is actually good for you to have s*x while you are on your period. There are some things that you can do to make it as pleasurable as possible while keeping the mess to a minimum. In a poll on almost three quarters of men said that they are fine with having s*x while the woman is on her period, although 54% said that it would have to be with their wife or serious girlfriend. Here are some tips to use for having great s*x during that time of the month.

1. Take a dark towel or two and place it wherever you are with your partner so that no sheets or floors get stained.

2. Use a condom so that it is easier for the guy to clean himself up after. It just rolls right off!

3. Keep a warm damp washcloth around so that you can wipe off the skin as you go along.

4. Try some different positions. Here are some good positions that limit mess:

a. Missionary with your legs on his shoulders: It is pleasurable while stopping the blood from flowing downward.
b. In the shower: Any mess will go right down the drain.
c. Use a menstrual cup: It is inserted into the [email protected] and collects blood without leaking any. After intercourse is done, it is removed.

5. As a warning, you can still get pregnant while you are on your period, so make sure to practice safe $ex at all times. STDs can also be transmitted.

6. Remember, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. This is something that all women go through and men know that.



  1. That is gross but to each, his own. Who wants to see the “aftermath” or feel disgusted afterwards. If he cannot wait a fews days to get some, he might not feel that she is worth the wait.

  2. Krystal…you are gross! I don’t know any men who likes this unless he is super duper nasty. I am 46 years old and only met 1 nasty dude that would do that. Please read your Bible.

    Leviticus 15:19-28 (King James Version)

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    Leviticus 15:19-28
    King James Version (KJV)
    19 And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be put apart seven days: and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even.

    20 And every thing that she lieth upon in her separation shall be unclean: every thing also that she sitteth upon shall be unclean.

    21 And whosoever toucheth her bed shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even.

    22 And whosoever toucheth any thing that she sat upon shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even.

    23 And if it be on her bed, or on any thing whereon she sitteth, when he toucheth it, he shall be unclean until the even.

    24 And if any man lie with her at all, and her flowers be upon him, he shall be unclean seven days; and all the bed whereon he lieth shall be unclean.

    25 And if a woman have an issue of her blood many days out of the time of her separation, or if it run beyond the time of her separation; all the days of the issue of her uncleanness shall be as the days of her separation: she shall be unclean.

    26 Every bed whereon she lieth all the days of her issue shall be unto her as the bed of her separation: and whatsoever she sitteth upon shall be unclean, as the uncleanness of her separation.

    27 And whosoever toucheth those things shall be unclean, and shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even.

    28 But if she be cleansed of her issue, then she shall number to herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean.


    • @ minister of god, i hope that you don’t go to work, ride the bus or interact with the public when you are on your period, or else you might go to hell. Oh and by the way, urinating and defecating, which i hope you do daily are body cleansing acts. The woman is not unclean on her period, to each his own.

      • You are an idiot!!!!
        Or you must not know how to read because you must be a trifling
        Chick because. That verse talked about having sexual innercourse while on your period. Yes all the time you are on your menstrual you are unclean
        Because that is your time of cleansing.
        You chicks that are fine with having sex on your period I bet you go through men like people drink water tons of men a year every 4 weeks your kids calling a different guy daddy. If you arent sleeping with different me you with a looser that beats on you or talk down to you or not working!
        GET A CLUE you nasty

        • Somebody is an “idiot” bc he/she does something different than u do? My wife and I do it and I have never laid a hand on her and she doesnt go through men. Wow. U have some vivid imagination. By the way, I have a job….a decent job at that.

    • I read that Scripture you referenced. At the end of a woman’s “uncleanness” she should take two pigeons to the priest, one as a sin offering (!) and the other as a burnt offering. This clearly means that the normal, natural menstrual cycle of a woman makes her not only “unclean” but also sinful. This is yet another reason for not taking the Bible literally. This is the Twenty-First Century, in case anybody cares.

    • We live in the age of grace, not law anymore thank GOD for Jesus. Since his death and resurection we are saved, not bound by the old testament law. We should be more worried about your unclean soul rather than an unclean body. The acts mention in this article will not send you to hell (if you’re a believer). For it is what comes out of the mouth that defiles us. Most of the old test. Was meant for the JEWISH ppl not gentiles. Our covenant starts in the new testament. This is a personal choice for a HUSBAND AND WIFE to make.

    • So you think we should what? Sleep in a tent out back for seven days!!! Or should there be separate hotel rooms for women with “an issue”??? Are you for real??!!! There are so many things wrong with this I don’t know where to begin……ok let’s start with: if you are a Christian (which I highly doubt) you know that the Old Testament is negated by the New Testament….second if you REALLY want to quote the First Testament the EXACT same Chapter that you’re quoting states that we are not to consume Chicken, Pork, or Seafood among other things….so what did you have for dinner tonight, you Medieval, Sexist, Jerk?? I personally don’t believe in having intercourse during my “seven days of uncleanliness” but that’s because I’m just not in the mood….NOT BECAUSE IM UNCLEAN!!! HOW DARE YOU!!!

  3. Mohammed Suleiman on

    This ideology is totally uncalled for! Can’t the men be patient and wait for their partners to finish the cycle first,when she’s pure without menstrual blood!

    • It has nothing to do with waiting or not able to. If my wife and I wants to sleep whenever we feel like it, her period shouldn’t stop us. U have never done it before, how do u know it’s nasty ?

    • I totally agree with you sir. I am a 65y/0 woman who has been married for 45yrs. Myself, or my husband would never think of having sex at that time. He can wait & so can I. Certain people in the world are getting to be so nasty & crazy, that anything goes. Next year, they’ll be saying it’s ok for parents to have sex with their children.

  4. DiamondGirlCali on

    In my experience, the flow usually stops for sex and will resume an hour or so later. I thought it would be gross but my husband talked me into it and it wasn’t anything like I expected. No stained sheets, no blood all over the place. Nothing out of the ordinary.

  5. Don’t knock it till you try it. That’s when I have my most explosive orgasms. And yes, I didn’t think I would ever try it until my husband said he didn’t mind. Ladies, you’re missing out on a good time!

    • I agree with yu. My husband &d I have done it a few times before. I have to say it feels way better &d its different so I dnt mind. My husband gets it when he wants it cause most of the time I be wanting it to, so it works out for the best.

  6. Ms. Crossman,

    I have to respectfully disagree with you regarding the comment on
    having intercourse while on your period is good for you. As a medical student in the specialized area of gynecology, there is no data to prove that it is ” actually good” for you but there are hundreds of documented cases, white papers and medical research articles to the contrary.

    I love reading your articles and all the helpful info you share but please encourage your readers to abstain from intercourse while menstruating and allow the body’s natural cleansing process to run its course. (Women remind your men that you are worth the wait)

  7. this is sick, nasty, filthy, highly unsanitary and just gross, plus a woman’s period is waste, uncleanness leaving her body. READ Leviticus 18:19 even GOD said you must not do this.

  8. Interesting as I’m usually EXTREMELY horny during “that time”! I’ve never engaged in sex during this time but I’ve surely thought about it.

  9. I’m disgusted that a woman wrote this piece of trash! If old boy wants to wallow around in blood, then he needs his head checked. Yhus is plain sick! How is getting banged going to help relieve my stomach cramps? Sick!

  10. I see nothing wrong with it. If you try it the pleasures are just that much more better. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it!!

  11. Some womens hormones are exta at that time. It’s only disgusting if that’s how you think or not open to enjoy at that time. Some men really don’t care.

  12. Who says a woman isn’t pure just because she’s on her period.. It’s totally natural & if my loving husband & I want to do it & I happen to be on my period my golly we’re going to do it!

  13. My wife and I have had it and found it quite enjoyable the dark towel is a well known trick to mask any staining and we shower right after. I love my wife and find her very sexy. She always cleans up before and after. We just skip the oral on her part. If you have sexual issues or are uncomfortable doing this then don’t. I’m an adult Man and I’m not grossed by female function.

  14. This is taking it a little to far. Come on, we don’t have to be animals. Most men probably spent their teenage years pleasuring themselves, so return to your youth. Yuck…lol

  15. Umm….NO….MOST men don’t!!
    Although when I was younger and blindly horny, I was all for it….But as an adult I hate it!
    ~~Nasty and stinks~~

  16. A woman shouldn’t have sex during her period because its sinful to do because she is unpure she is unclean.. When a woman has her period she’s doing a total cleanse of her body so it’s good not to have any interference.

  17. I agree I think this is taking it a little to far we don’t have to behave like wild animals, this is gross and discussing, if he can’t wait a few days he may not be worth the wait.

  18. Harold I. Brown on

    What kind of a stupid woman writes an article that shows a woman how to debase herself by having sex at this time of month? Better yet, why would you print this. Our morals are in the gutter. Most real men don’t want to have sex with a woman at this time of month. Some of the Black women of this generation are so desperate, brain-washed, sex grazed and just plain whorish that they will do anything for attention.

  19. This is straight nasty! A woman’s body is going through a cleansing process when she’s on her cycle, if either person can’t wait 4 to 5 days something is seriously wrong. I wouldn’t even tell no one I was sexing while on my cycle that’s just nasty.

  20. A woman can get pregnant while on her period? Really? I thought the egg breaks and causes the blood to run. No egg no baby. Hmm.

  21. No way would i engage while my girls going thru her period.Just wait till its done.Whoever wrote this article is nasty ,she would probably advocate men going down on a woman while she’s having her period also.Just nuts.

  22. I see nothing wrong if both couples are ok with it. My wife doesn’t mind and we both enjoy it. To me it’s not nasty at all.

  23. All of u guys claiming it’s nasty, how did u know? U have never done it before. U are all assuming it’s nasty.

  24. Many have a lot to say but behind closed doors it’s another thing which is why this article has surfaced. It’s just like sucking dick, everyone say it’s nasty and claim they don’t do it but behind closed doors they wear it out. Another thing that helps limit the mess is to take a good hot bath. This temporarily stops the cycle.

    • This is exactly what I was just saying to my husband, when I was reading people’s comments. Some people just go with what the majority says. Hell I say if yu like it do it. Nasty to yu is pleasure to me.

  25. Jenny From The Block on

    Wow…there are a lot of judgmental people leaving comments!!! How do you know that these are the views of the author? Maybe they are just collecting info and writing an article that they thought would be helpful to others. Maybe these are their views, who knows, but either way, who are we to judge the author?

    On that note, my husband and I used to do this and it wasn’t gross like a lot of you are thinking. As others have said, don’t knock it til you try it.

    To those quoting the Bible…give me a break. The Bible also says that eating lobster and ham, getting tattoos, consulting psychics, gossiping, entering a church while having injuries to the male parts, getting remarried after being divorced, working on the Sabbath, women speaking in church, and premarital *** are all sins. I am sure those Bible Thumpers above have committed at LEAST one of these sins in their lifetime.

    No one is perfect. No one.

  26. There are plenty of men enjoy this activity. If you are down they are..this is against everything I believe in as a human being. I will advise any woman against this.

  27. This is beyond TRIFLING. What nasty, sick man would want to have messy, bloody, sex? If he can’t wait until the woman is back to normal then he has issues. And the woman is just as trifling as he is for agreeing to do it. Would he have oral sex during this time too? If not, then he shouldn’t want to have regular sex.

  28. HereCumTrouble on

    Never fails how people use the bible, especially the Old Testament to vindicate their own personal feelings. We are not living in biblical times an just because a person chooses this act doesn’t make them trifling and/or nasty, especially a married couple. So called Christians are the most judgemental people on earth! You drive people out of churches and away from institutionalized religion.

  29. Dam you Eve.I would say when I had that problem.
    Thank God for the gift of hysterectomy. No worries anytime anywhere anyway.

  30. Some of you are so clueless. Some women don’t even have a cycle every month 1st of all and 2nd there are a lot of women who’s labido is higher during her time of the month. If two consenting adults find it ok that doesn’t make either of them any more of a sinner than what we were born into. So before we start quoting the King James version, let’s make sure that it is interpreted correctly. And as others have stated…..don’t knock it till you try it.

  31. married for 10 yrs... on

    Imso confused with the bible thing and the sex with children comment… What does one have to do with the other!sex is an every day thing regradeless of my cycle or not in ny relationship.its not nothing that can’t be cleaned off with soap and water. We can wait but we chose bot too… So talking down to those who chose it is not right nor fair!

  32. I love fvcking on a period. That pussy feels extra wet. Unclean? Yeah, sure. I’m pretty sure that most humans are unclean 24 hours aday. How much bacteria and everything do we have anyway. Sometimes I have my girl wash up and I just neatly suck on her clit until she orgasms. She cums harder than usual. And she is very happy afterwards.

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