Niecy Nash has been happily married since 2011 to Jay Tucker, an electrical engineer. She says that there is one very simple way to keep divorce at bay that all women can do. It is all about intimacy and Nash says that her philosophy is “one BJ a day keeps the divorce lawyer at bay”. She recently did an interview with Playboy Magazine and spoke about how she feels that intimacy is a huge factor in whether a marriage stays together or not.
Nash wrote a book called It’s Hard to Fight [email protected] where she explains that a fully intimate marriage and being a good cook is all you need to keep your marriage a happy one. She says that men are very simple to please if you stop and think about it. She feels that the theory “full stomach, empty pen!s” is the key to keeping your man happy. Nash says that women by nature are willing to take care of others before they let someone take care of them and so they are more willing to give out [email protected] without having to get it back. They want to take care of their man and make them happy because Nash says it’s in their DNA. However Nash feels that women should be asking their man for what they want as well because men may not think about it.
Nash says that she finds it interesting that women easily have conversations about raising children, getting married, and everyday life events but seem to have trouble asking questions about intimacy. They don’t ask their partners what they like and don’t like or what they want in bed. She feels that this could be the kiss of death for a marriage because the longer a woman goes without her needs being met she could slowly begin to resent it. Over time this could lead to resent towards her husband. Communication is key to make sure that both parties are getting what they need in a relationship and making each other happy. Nash feels that this is why her marriage with Tucker is such a happy one.