One Woman’s Experiment: $ex Everyday For a Year Changed Her Life

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By: Krystle Crossman

When you and your man have been together for  along time, the spark can start to fade and $ex takes a backseat to your busy lives. Sometimes you don’t even realize it until someone points it out to you, namely your man. One woman shared her story about an email that she got from her significant other one day that shocked her.

She asked him what his favorite five body parts of hers were to which he responded, “Butt hair face lips cleavage”. After she scoffed at this, he sent another reply that said, “Well to be honest, I haven’t seen you totally naked in years”. After this email she decided that she was going to have $ex every day for one year. She was worried he was losing interest.

During this year she said that it wasn’t even about the $ex itself, it was training her brain to not be so mean when she took her clothes off. She was trying to teach herself to be comfortable in her own skin. She found that pretty panties made her feel better and more confident, and her husband certainly was not opposed to them either. Once she began to feel better about herself she realized how much better the $ex was.

Another piece to this experiment was for her to become her own voice when it came to what she liked and what she didn’t like when it came right down to it. She learned to share what she was not a fan of so that it didn’t look like she was just being greedy and all about her all of the time. She felt that instead of waiting around for her husband to figure out how to please her properly, she would straight out tell him. And it worked.

They no longer have $ex every day but she did learn a lot about herself and it has helped the both of them to make more of an effort and in the end lead to better$ex and a better relationship.

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  1. Rachel S Anderson on

    I once had a boyfriend that I loved,desired and enjoyed so much that we had sex every day we were together,which was a total of five years,and it was always great and exciting.women like sex as much as men,if not more.the only thing is,it has to be passionate for a woman,a man could careless about that and just wants to climax. Well that’s just my opinion,and who am I except one happy sexually fulfilled woman? Lol

  2. I feel like some key details are missing here.How old is she? And does menstruate and if so how was that?I’m 29 and for me I’m completely out of the mood right before my period begins and sex during is out of the question (for me).

  3. BROOKLYN ONE SEANJ on

    A WARREN BALLENTINE …………….GET OFF THESE DUMB SITES AND TELL BLACK PEOPLE HOW THEY CAN LEAVE. THIS RACIST ASS COUNTRY.
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    OR AT LEAST HOW TO DIS(INTEGRATE) FROM THE THE PEOPLE THAT HATE BLACK/AFRO AMERICANS(WHITES,LATIN,ASIAN, BLACK IMMIGRANTS)
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    THIS DUMB SHIT ON HERE IS JUST THAT DUMB, NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE WE NEED JOBS AND BUSINESSES AND WAYS TO SUSTAIN OURSELVES.
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    BLACK/AFRO AMERICANS THAT STAY IN AMERICA YOU NEED TO LOOK AT THESE THINGS TO SUSTAIN YOUR SELF.
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    1….AQUAPONICS/HYDROPONICS
    2….SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY IF YOU GOING TO GO TO COLLEGE.
    3….SMALL FARMING
    4…..TRANSPORTATION AND DISTRIBUTION WITH SMALL MANUFACTURING.
    5…….YOU NEED SKILLS THAT CAN TAKE YOU TO ALL 192(SOME SAY 196)COUNTRIES ACROSS THIS GLOBE AND THEN APPLY THOSE SKILLS.
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    BECAUSE THIS COUNTRY IS OVER WHEN IT COMES TO BEING ABLE TO TAKE OF ITS PEOPLE.

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