When you and your man have been together for along time, the spark can start to fade and $ex takes a backseat to your busy lives. Sometimes you don’t even realize it until someone points it out to you, namely your man. One woman shared her story about an email that she got from her significant other one day that shocked her.
She asked him what his favorite five body parts of hers were to which he responded, “Butt hair face lips cleavage”. After she scoffed at this, he sent another reply that said, “Well to be honest, I haven’t seen you totally naked in years”. After this email she decided that she was going to have $ex every day for one year. She was worried he was losing interest.
During this year she said that it wasn’t even about the $ex itself, it was training her brain to not be so mean when she took her clothes off. She was trying to teach herself to be comfortable in her own skin. She found that pretty panties made her feel better and more confident, and her husband certainly was not opposed to them either. Once she began to feel better about herself she realized how much better the $ex was.
Another piece to this experiment was for her to become her own voice when it came to what she liked and what she didn’t like when it came right down to it. She learned to share what she was not a fan of so that it didn’t look like she was just being greedy and all about her all of the time. She felt that instead of waiting around for her husband to figure out how to please her properly, she would straight out tell him. And it worked.
They no longer have $ex every day but she did learn a lot about herself and it has helped the both of them to make more of an effort and in the end lead to better$ex and a better relationship.