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The 10 Types Of Men To Avoid If You Want Marriage

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Women often wonder if there are men out there who just won’t marry them. The answer is yes. These men are probably the type that you wouldn’t want to marry anyway! Here are the ten men you should stay away from.

1. The guy who is still hung up on his ex. He is not over her and will not marry you because you aren’t her.

2..The guy who doesn’t want a serious relationship “right now”. This is either a convenient way for him to dump you without looking like a total jerk, or he will never be ready to make that leap.

3. The guy who is always looking for something better. He is always going to be wondering if there is someone better out there, and if he thinks that he has found it, he will dump you in a second.

4. The guy who likes to hang out with guys old enough to be his sons. He will be out clubbing and being immature with younger guys, trying to pick up women to impress them.

5. The guy who is still trying to figure out what he wants from his career. He will always be more focused on his job than you.

6. The guy who is over fifty and has never been married. He is looking for Miss Right, but if he hasn’t found her yet, why would you be it?

7. The guy who doesn’t believe in monogamy. Yeah, stay clear of this one at all costs (unless you are into that kind of thing). Once a cheater, always a cheater.

8. The guy who is all about himself. He only thinks of him, not anyone else. He won’t care about your feelings or thoughts because they aren’t his.

9. The guy who is all about his kids. This can seem sweet in the beginning until you realize there is no room left for you in the family.

10. The guy who still dates other women while he says he really cares about you. If he really cares, he wouldn’t need the other dates.

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40 Responses to The 10 Types Of Men To Avoid If You Want Marriage

  1. eric greaves Reply

    March 19, 2013 at 2:04 pm

    Hello to whom this may concern:
    I greatly apreciate your effort on providing women with information like the one your article ” The types of Men to avoid if you want marriages.” But, I would appreciate it if you have not already, please do the same research and provide the same information for men.

    • Karen Reply

      March 25, 2013 at 1:49 pm

      @eric Greaves,

      This is for Greaves and all the men that wonder the same thing,
      The ten types of women to NOT DATE if you are looking for a serious and healthy marriage

      10. The woman that is ALWAYS on her cell phone, during dinner, in the car, she always makes her cell phone a priority and her family is safe and sound so why would she need to answer a call at like 1:am in the morning??!!

      9. The The woman who has alot of man friends. She is really flirty, and constantly says that “their just friends”. You have found a stop sign, and you need to make a u-turn.

      8. A woman that puts a man before her kids. This is a hard one, but understand that until you get MARRIED, your children come first, once you are married you and your partner can divy up the responsibility. Plus, if she puts you first now, you just might be taking care of all the responsibilities later instead of together. It will always be about her.

      7. A woman who says she does not “need” a man. This is usually the comment made by a financially secure woman who is afraid to get in a relationship and spends all her time at work, because that is just more important than a relationship right. This type of woman finds fault with every s now. This type of woman is super sensitive, and does not handle rejection too well.

      6. A woman who bad mouths her ex, her baby’s daddy and every other single man she has met. Heck this chick thinks all man are dogs. What the heck do you got to give, or er hmm bring to the table.

      5. A woman who counts the dollars in your pocketbook. (some liken the term to gold-digger) but I rather the term opportunist). I find these women are stingy and only look out for themselves. And as long as you are spending money on them they are a “down with it” chick, but the minute that money dries up, so does their “love”….

      4. The undercover sister, she is having a relationship with everybody. Her ex, the new dude, their friends….The girl is hot, too hot, to settle down, this type of lady loves the attention, wears tight fitting clothes where her body parts fall out!! Give her time to grow, say about ten years

      3.The woman who has a bitter relationship with her father, she can’t forgive him for walking out on her back when she was NINE YEARS OLD…and still harbours resentment to this day. She’ll find fault with you for blinking…

      2. The loud woman, always wants to “justify” her position in a story, always worried about what other people are saying about her…You can kind of tell what the conversations are going to be like. She’s not talking about building a future, she’s upset over what NeNe and ‘em said bout her at the club

      1. The ratchet chick ( I love that word!!!) It’s ghetto to the power of like 10. This type of woman might even be graceful, but she does not like to cook, clean, or take care of her house. Her finances are in dissarray. Her lifestyle is the finest wine, but her pocket book is akin to a pop bottle. She kind of has the high school mentality that she is still “alright” and has it going on…even though the bills are piling up on the floor.

      Again don’t get to uptight over my list, you get the general idea. The trick is to marry your best friend. The person you can be yourself with. Whose company you can both enjoy. Some people are not where we need them to be at any given moment. And that is ok. You have the right not to have to sit and around and wait.

      ;D

      • Nita Reply

        August 13, 2013 at 2:40 pm

        sorry Karen but mastering your bff isn’t the best thing either… married mine of ten years and after 4 kids for no reason at all he walked out, after a lil over a year he’s tried to come home, we’ve been separated almost 3 years now, need I say more

      • Nita Reply

        August 13, 2013 at 2:41 pm

        sorry Karen but marrying your bff isn’t the best thing either… married mine of ten years and after 4 kids for no reason at all he walked out, after a lil over a year he’s tried to come home, we’ve been separated almost 3 years now, need I say more

      • TP Reply

        August 14, 2013 at 1:32 am

        Well **** Karen – that’s sounds like ALL of them! LOL…

  2. Ovetta Sampson Reply

    March 19, 2013 at 10:09 pm

    Eric,
    I totally agree. Personally I think you could substitute “woman” for every instance of “man” and have your list to avoid. Basically avoid immature, uninvolved, and uncaring people. They are not capable of truly loving someone else because to love you must sacrifice and most people aren’t into that.

  3. Tracey Cade Reply

    March 20, 2013 at 2:37 am

    I know I have met at least 4 of them. That explains it.

  4. Elem Reply

    March 21, 2013 at 1:52 pm

    So you want to stay clear from the guy who is all about his kids? LOL, Your culture is screwed.

    • SayWhat Reply

      March 21, 2013 at 4:11 pm

      Until you meet someone like that, you’re clueless. There are people out there that think their children can’t breath on their own – so they smother them…and forget about anything and everyone else, including themselves. Not companion material at all.

  5. Gary Reply

    March 21, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    Being over 50 and never having been married, I say you are wrong on that one. Sometimes circumstances beyond his control, and not that he has not found miss right, may have been the reason he has not gotten married.

    • Imani Wisdon Reply

      March 25, 2013 at 7:16 pm

      Gary, I agree with you. Just because you’re 50 and over, and haven’t been married, doesn’t mean it’s negative. Maybe they haven’t found Mr. or Miss Right.

    • Me Reply

      April 7, 2013 at 9:18 pm

      Gary I am 30, and when I was 18-23 I had the most 50 crowd men that would hit on me, sometimes it was indirect or direct. This is what I determined, 50% of them were married and wanted to cheat and I guess looked at me as being a candidate? Yes there was nasty response from me each and every time. The other side of that 50% if they never had been married, maybe 25% of them were just bonafide dogs, and that last 25% were nice men. So to be real 75% of men around that age bracket had that tendency of a 21 yrs old that likes to be anything but committed. 25% is a small number, but then again there are a lot of men that front about who they really are, so 25% sounds bout accurate.

  6. Haile Reply

    March 21, 2013 at 8:02 pm

    In any relationship there must be Trust.I mean an honest trust or the relationship is not good.No matter with whom one has a relationship if there is no trust it is not a good one. Most things when you break them you can mend them but if you break trust you cannot really mend it.You will always have that doubt becauase the trust had been broken.One day they called me to school for my daughter, and I told them I only wanted to hear what she had to say.She told me exactly what happened. I told her to say thanks to the assistant principal for he had done his job. Right infront of him I told her to make this incident be her 9/11 for if her face was not burnt and it was ice coloured like his she would have been treated differently. You see we had a trust in our relationship and I knew what she said was so.You have to have that trust.

  7. Karen Reply

    March 25, 2013 at 1:45 pm

    @eric Greaves,

    This is for Greaves and all the men that wonder the same thing,
    The ten types of women to NOT DATE if you are looking for a serious and healthy marriage

    10. The woman that is ALWAYS on her cell phone, during dinner, in the car, she always makes her cell phone a priority and her family is safe and sound so why would she need to answer a call at like 1:am in the morning??!!

    9. The The woman who has alot of man friends. She is really flirty, and constantly says that “their just friends”. You have found a stop sign, and you need to make a u-turn.

    8. A woman that puts a man before her kids. This is a hard one, but understand that until you get MARRIED, your children come first, once you are married you and your partner can divy up the responsibility. Plus, if she puts you first now, you just might be taking care of all the responsibilities later instead of together. It will always be about her.

    7. A woman who says she does not “need” a man. This is usually the comment made by a financially secure woman who is afraid to get in a relationship and spends all her time at work, because that is just more important than a relationship right. This type of woman finds fault with every s now. This type of woman is super sensitive, and does not handle rejection too well.

    6. A woman who bad mouths her ex, her baby’s daddy and every other single man she has met. Heck this chick thinks all man are dogs. What the heck do you got to give, or er hmm bring to the table.

    5. A woman who counts the dollars in your pocketbook. (some liken the term to gold-digger) but I rather the term opportunist). I find these women are stingy and only look out for themselves. And as long as you are spending money on them they are a “down with it” chick, but the minute that money dries up, so does their “love”….

    4. The undercover sister, she is having a relationship with everybody. Her ex, the new dude, their friends….The girl is hot, too hot, to settle down, this type of lady loves the attention, wears tight fitting clothes where her body parts fall out!! Give her time to grow, say about ten years

    3.The woman who has a bitter relationship with her father, she can’t forgive him for walking out on her back when she was NINE YEARS OLD…and still harbours resentment to this day. She’ll find fault with you for blinking…

    2. The loud woman, always wants to “justify” her position in a story, always worried about what other people are saying about her…You can kind of tell what the conversations are going to be like. She’s not talking about building a future, she’s upset over what NeNe and ‘em said bout her at the club

    1. The ratchet chick ( I love that word!!!) It’s ghetto to the power of like 10. This type of woman might even be graceful, but she does not like to cook, clean, or take care of her house. Her finances are in dissarray. Her lifestyle is the finest wine, but her pocket book is akin to a pop bottle. She kind of has the high school mentality that she is still “alright” and has it going on…even though the bills are piling up on the floor.

  8. Dani Reply

    March 26, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    What’s so wrong about a woman saying she doesn’t need a man !!! Its true ! Women don’t need men for anything other than *** so don’t even go there you dumb *** Karen !!!! Women should ALWAYS be financially stable and Independent from their men because if not men will only take advantage of them and try to control them. You should know that since your so **** smart and all. I don’t see the problem with that, after all men have no problem with being greedy and being all about their money, so why should women be. That one stupid “type to of women to look out for” is complete bullshit and you are basically telling men to seek out a woman who is less independent so he can have the upper hand. Your SUCH A ******* IDIOT KAREN!!!! STOP WRITING ******* ARTICLES AND GO BACK TO SCHOOL!!!!!!

    • Shunn Reply

      March 28, 2013 at 5:23 pm

      Your entire statement is whats wrong with women. Screamin independent becuase they are alone and bitter. Problem is, you met a few bad men, and you think all men are dogs, which you fall up under another number on the list. Yes a female can be independent, but don’t forget to be a female. And having your kids grow up seeing you alone, taking care of a household by yourself isnt a good example of being a woman. That shows that you can’t connect with anyone. Sometimes you have to take a step back and analize yourself. You so afraid of things not going your way that you rather stay single. Life wasnt designed to be that way. And life without ***, hold my gun and shoot yourself lol…

  9. AAA Reply

    March 26, 2013 at 2:25 pm

    @Dani ..You must be retarded … Go back to REHAB !

  10. Cord Reply

    March 27, 2013 at 8:48 am

    Why is a man that puts his kids first is considered someone a woman would not want to marry…but if a woman does the same thing, she is doing the RIGHT thing? Thats very hypocritical, the rest of the points were ok. @iamlegend2 Twitter

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  12. satch Reply

    March 27, 2013 at 10:59 pm

    hmm forgot this for the men stay away from women with grown unsucessful kids living at home at 25-35 years old run fast as you can.dropout sons those idiots will become a problem for you

  13. outside looking in Reply

    March 29, 2013 at 7:57 am

    The mentality, character,and or integrity of a person is different for each. Common behaviors in most cases produce the same result in the end though the situations are different. Instead of bad mouthing because anothers view is not like yours, try to see where they are coming from first. If you really don’t want to get that involved, don’t make comments that shows your ignorance. It is known we as a people often criticize what we don’t understand. Please, stop the negativity, it is draining..

  14. Les Reply

    March 29, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    @Karen: You also forgot one other woman not to marry: The woman with kids.

  15. Nikki Reply

    March 30, 2013 at 4:28 pm

    The question a few people referred to about the guy all about his kids, I have seen up close and personal how they over compensate, therefore making it very hard for a woman to get in…its a great thing when father loves his children…but too much is a turn off.

  16. Tracey Reply

    March 31, 2013 at 2:13 pm

    @Les, why would you say, “You also forgot one other woman not to marry: The woman with kids”??? I have friends who became single mothers and due to circumstance it was better than staying in the relationship. But they are great women who take care of their child(ren) and have careers. A couple of them even married men who are not the father of their kid(s) and the marriages are great. The men didn’t have any children but embraced the children as their own and the families are solid. They have been married for more than 10 years each and going strong. If that is your personal choice than that is wonderful for you but you shouldn’t put women with kids on the list just because they have them. Just as I would not put a man on the list who has child(ren) unless as was stated, he pays more attention to them then a relationship, he is a deadbeat dad and doesn’t take responsibility for his babies or if he has a bad case of baby-mama(s) drama. Don’t want to get caught up with a crazy baby mama.

  17. anonymous Reply

    April 2, 2013 at 10:27 pm

    Sad and stupid. No wonder america is laughing at us.

  18. eric Reply

    April 7, 2013 at 11:14 pm

    reading the comments, you can tell happily married people and the people who can’t keep a mate.

  19. guest Reply

    April 11, 2013 at 12:34 am

    Someone said, that children come first until you get married.

    CORRECTION: CHILDREN COMES FIRST BEFORE, DURING AND AFTER THE MARRIAGE.

  20. MissT Reply

    August 13, 2013 at 4:21 pm

    Women and men have sterotyped each other to the point no one wants to bother with developing a relationship. Rather than looking at the positive character of a person we instead seek out all the negatives. Once we find that negative in that person we turn cold. We all have faults. You can make all the list in the world but in the end all that will be left is a sheet of paper in pen.

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