Here is your dilemma: You are dating a man who treats you better than any other man ever has. He is kind, he is loving, he takes care of you and treats you like a queen. So what is the problem? You just aren’t feeling it. He may not have quite the personality that you are looking for or you are not physically attracted to him. So what do you do? Do you stay in a relationship with him because he treats you with respect or do you break things off and hope that you can find another guy who will treat you just as well that you are attracted to?
Writer Cecily Michelle of Madam Noire has found herself in this situation a few times and has gone back and forth on what to do. Is it better to stay with someone that will meet all of your needs with one small exception or is it better to find someone that you are attracted to more than anything? Everyone has a type and sometimes you come across that one person who isn’t necessarily your type, but you know that they are willing to treat you well and make you happy.
Michelle asks her readers what they think about the situation and what they would do if they have found a man like this? Many of her readers left comments that if there is no physical attraction, the relationship cannot be a full and happy one. There needs to be that little spark. Others put in their two cents about times when they have been reluctant to date someone because they were not attracted to them at first but then ended up becoming attracted to them over time. Some even married those that there was no initial spark with.
How do you feel about the situation? Would you continue to date someone that you don’t have an immediate spark with to see if there is anything there or would you go searching for something else?