What Many Women Don’t Know About Men and Cheating

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By: Krystle Crossman

Many men cheat. It is unfortunately a fact of life. Here are some facts about cheaters that you may not know about.

1. They may be doing it to save their marriage. If they have relationship problems and don’t know what to do, they may cheat to fill the void that is left by their marriage so that they can be happier with their wife.

2. Many times men cheat with women that they already know instead of a random hook-up. A survey had found that over 60% of affairs stemmed from relationships with coworkers.

3. Men still love their wives even though they are cheating on them. They may still be in love but they are not happy with the way that things are going, so they seek out a companion to make them happy.

4. Men are more s*xually active with their wives when they start having an affair with someone. If you notice an unusual change in his s*x drive, watch him carefully. Once the affair settles down he will start to pull away again.

5. Almost all men who cheat feel badly about it and tend to hate themselves for it. It takes a toll on almost everyone.

6. No matter what people say, when a husband cheats it is not the wife’s fault.

7. When a man is in the middle of an affair he will never be able to work out his problems with his wife. Try to be the woman that he fell in love with in the first place instead of settling into the role of nagging wife.

8. Women cheat just as much as men do only the way that they cheat can be more damaging. They will emotionally cheat, especially with people online.

9. Women usually know when their man is having an affair.

10. An affair make actually save a marriage as it will rekindle a passion inside of the man.

11. Even though he knows that he is hurting his family and his wife, he still cheats anyway. This is because he may feel like he is being treated negatively in the home.

12. Even after the affair is over and the marriage is fixed, the man may still miss it due to the lack of commitment and the fun.

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20 Comments

  1. Okay, I understand this is about Men,but is these the reasons that women cheats too?
    I personally find it difficult to believe, any person cheating, love the individual he or she is in a relationship with.
    So I say Bull SHI_!

    • Love & sex are two very separate & distinct entities, the fact that you can’t distinguish & separate the two speaks volumes about your immaturity

      • are not going to hurt something or someone you love.You love her like you love yourself and you most definately will not hurt yourself.Sas you said get wise.

  2. those are some stupid ass reason’s this column is giving really it have to be a man writing this shit i know a lady that take good care of her husband and he still find a reason to cheat you don’t have to do anything to them it dont matter how nice you are or what you do.

    • Unless your in the home & or bedroom with them can you really testify as to “how well” she was taking care of him because of coarse only Men “lie, brag & boast” & men have as much right as women to fall out of love

      • Inny Minny MOE! on

        @Al Hill ll, men have the right to cheat if they want, but don’t expect the wife to stick around while you go dip your log. If you went out there and found a sex hook-up then ya need to stay with them. REAL TALK 101.

        • No one has the right to “cheat” whether its a girlfriend, wife, fiancé or business partner, if a relationship is unsatisfying regardless of its nature you have the right to “walk away” & not offend or take anyone for granted

  3. I know a woman wrote this. Look at the title alone… MEN this and that. Recent surveys say women are not far behind men…I can see why men cheat. Keep generalizing an entire gender and they are condemn for something they haven’t done…I would say F- it, it that’s what omen believe and expect.

  4. It is uncool trying to blame the woman for why a man cheats. Men cheat because they can. We tend to be selfish and objectify women. We see them as a commodity that is interchangeable. This is no reflection on women. Blaming the women keeps men from looking like complete pigs. How can I blame someone else for what I do. I make my own choices. A marriage my survive infidelity but the scars will remain. It is time that we men accept responsibility for what we do.

    • Speak for yourself on your own selfish & inconsiderate nature, when God created “Evil” & “selfishness” he didn’t just create it in Men. Women have successfully tricked society into believing that “when a man cheats its his fault” & “when a women cheats its his fault” . When a women “falls out of love” & moves on she’s looking for happiness, when a man “falls out of love” & moves on “he’s destroying the family” & all men are “selfish pigs” except of coarse the one she’s cheating with. There is no (more) saintly gender

    • The reality is that regardless of the reasons why men cheat they almost always blame the woman. Is it right? Absolutely not and that blame causes so much insecurity, pain and heartache.

  5. MEN FIND THE KEY TO MOST WOMEN HEART,AND THIS WHY MOST WOMEN FALL
    IN LOVE,BUT WOMEN SEEM TO NEVER FIND THE KEY TO HIS HEART,BUT FIND THE KEY TO HIS DINGA LING THROUGH HER PROVOCATIVE TALK AND DRESSING. THIS IS THE REASON MEN CHEAT BECAUSE WOMAN REASON WITH
    OTHER WOMEN ABOUT HOW TO KEEP A MAN,BUT THE SAME WOMEN THAT TELL THEM HOW TO KEEP A MAN,THEY ARE TELLING THOSE WOMEN ABOUT
    THE KEYS TO THE HEART OF THIER MAN.ONE KEY DONT FIT EVERYMANS HEART
    WE HAVE DIFFERENT KEYS BECAUSE OF OUR LIFE EXPERIENCES,GENETICS,AND
    MENTAL FIXED IDEAS ABOUT LIFE.

  6. I am a woman who respects herself and other women. However, men cheat with women unless they are hidden bi-sexuals. The blame game is on both sides. Men get away with cheating because we as women are competitive with one another. When we as women go out we are not dressing for the man, we are dressing to look better than the other woman to get the mans attention. Women are vicious when a male presence is around. Women flock to the sprots arena, Top executive functions, high powered men rather they are married or not. Women will trick, lie, steal and kill to get the man away from another woman. The men are the puppets and loving every minute of it. Until we women stop the competitive nature within us only then will men stop doing what they are doing. We need to hold values and respect other women, especially when they are married. Men are to stupid to understand that the woman is using you in her game. The affair you are having and complaining about your wife your side piece will do everything opposite to try to get you from your wife. If you fall for the sex you certainly are a sucker. Just know everything new becomes old, and the wife you left for the new you will find it will become the same situation with a different face on the new woman. Bills need to be paid, sex will decrease and disagreements will abound. Marriages the second time around end in divorce at a higher rate than the first. So men and women if you feel like cheating think twice before you make that move. Endure the long haul, find your inner self gratification. If you respect yourself, you will respect others.” Do unto others as you would have done to you.” Do not turn yourself into selfishness.

  7. Joanne Jackson on

    This is a bunch of dtessed up nosens. Anyone who cheats, in rhis case men, does not love the wife or the one he cheats with. He lusts to satify self, which can never be satisfied. He will continue each time becoming more addicted to the lifestyle and desire less of the marriage. The wife has no control pver or responsibility to try to sway him by theatrics..its his life choice, period. Until and if he desires to stop, he wont.enabling. this behaviorsby tolerating it is giving consent. Take reaponsibilityand stop placing blame..owm personal choices and betrayal of trust

  8. Both, Men and Women cheat, it’s is my position people cheat to avoid something in their relationship that they have not been able to resolve; whether because they have not expressed their feelings about an issue or their expressed feelings have been ignored and nothing has changed. I’ve been in my relationship for two years and for the past 8 months my man has shown me zero affection, no kissing, no holding hands, no touching, no sex and no imtimacy and do not allow me to give him these things either. It’s been difficult, because I spite of talking about this dissatisfaction in the relationship he has not made an effort to change this behavior, and focus his conversation around everthing but the elephant in the room of out relationship. I have not cheated on him, I’ve thought about it and decide against it because that is not who I am! However, as the months have rolled by I have fallen out of love with him, I am a person that need human contact mentally, emotionally and physically. I come from a family full of hugs, love, encouragement and nurturing, and in an adult relationship I need to give and recieve those things. My point is cheating is an option and a chose, that many Men and Women do not choose no matter what!! I have decide to end the relationship and that was not a light decision, I had to find great courage to come to this decision. Cheating is not an option for me, moving on was.

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