When a Woman’s Rap!st Is Her Own Husband

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downloadBy: Krystle Crossman

When you think about the word [email protected] you are probably thinking about a woman who is abducted in the park or something along those lines. What you may not expect to hear is that so many women are [email protected] by their husband because many do not feel that it is [email protected] if you are married. Tell that to the wives.

[email protected] is defined as an act of forced s*x. All it takes is a woman saying “no” or for her to feel threatened and it turns into a criminal offense. Below are the different types of [email protected] that married women all over the country experience but seldom report:

1. Non-consensual – If a woman cannot speak to say if she does or does not want to have s*x it is considered to be forcible. An example of this would be if a woman were asleep or were knocked out by a drug and her husband had s*x with her while she was unconscious.

2. Giving in – Sometimes a wife feels that it is safer for her to just give in to her husband instead of putting up a fight or telling him no.

3. Forced – [email protected] is [email protected] whether you are married or not and many men forget this. If a woman is held down, injured, or pushed around it is [email protected]

4. Manipulation – If a man knows that his wife is going to turn him down he will try to manipulate her into it. He will tell her that she isn’t good in bed anyway or that she isn’t a good wife she may sleep with him in order to try and prove him wrong. This is his intended outcome and although the woman isn’t being forced physically she is being mentally manipulated.

5. Taking a woman hostage – Some husbands will make sure that they are the dominating force in the relationship. They hold everything such as money and assets so that the wife feels that she has no other choice but to give him what he wants.

6. Threats – When a man threatens to beat his wife if she doesn’t have s*x with him it is a form of [email protected] She doesn’t want to make him even more angry and so she will do what he wants.

If you know someone who is going through something like try to talk to them. Try to let them know that this is not okay by any means. Being married does not mean that they are not being [email protected] There are support centers and hotlines all over the country for domestic violence. The main hotline is 1-800-799-7273.

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7 Comments

  1. If #4 is rape, the rape stats should jump to 100%. Also, if sliding up in your wife while she’s is sleep is considered rape, the stats should go up to 200%. Now, I’m ready for you feminist bitches to spew your bile.

  2. I agree with some of these but not all of these! Especially the manipulation b/s! Married men are always “begging” for Sex from their wives! I know few married guys who are getting enough at home yet these same wives “expect” the man to goto work to support their lifestyles! Men are always on the short end of the stick, whether a Good guy or not. Women have all these excuses to say no to sex but expect their Men to work hard to pay the bills and remain faithful when they are constantly using their p#$$y as a way of manipulating that man! I say get the fuck out of here with that b/s because women have been manipulating men since the beginning of time & always will!

    • Your comment has completely veered off topic. First of all, your assumptions about women are ludicrous. The actions of a few do not empirically prove that “women have been manipulating men since the beginning of time & always will!”. The fact that no substantial proof is given in your comment is the final nail in the coffin for this argument.

      Second of all, manipulation is manipulation. If a woman is not happy to consent, then any sexual act that ensues is by definition r***. End of story. So talking about women who may be manipulative does not mean that there are no manipulative men or that rape that ensues from manipulation is not rape.

      I would suggest that you take some time out to consider the weight of your arguments. The author of this article is talking about a serious crime that affects millions of women on a daily basis all around the world. Do you really think that interrupting with the mundane issue of good wives versus bad wives is respectful to the serious nature of what is being discussed? You sound like you are a latent misogynist. Why not deal with that, instead of trying to diminish the severity of rape?

    • Victoria McGill on

      I am 32 and my husband is 34 we been together for 16 years and never have we had any issues with sex or an income we are tic for tact if that’s what you call it lol we do for each other all of the time however just one of those i guess was a little bless however you are so right!!!Good guy or not. Women have all these excuses to say no to *** but expect their Men to work hard to pay the bills and remain faithful when they are constantly using their p#$$y as a way of manipulating that man! I say get the **** out of here with that b/s because women have been manipulating men since the beginning of time & always will! see alot of this myself smh there’s an excuse for everything just there’s females i know that what to be married just so that they can say they did it a ring gifts but nasty in return i love my ppl but can’t stand half of the things they do i get hated on just because i been with my husband for 16 years.

    • Madpoet429, I agree with you 100%. It is a wives duty to submit to her husband with-in reason. Most women do make attempts to control their relationship, by holding out on sex. I for one have never given in to this manipulation. I tell them up front, “that games aren’t my thing”. If you don’t want to satisfy my needs, I know who will. I do not condone adultery, but hate manipulation even more.

  3. Stop pointing fingers. Its unfortunate if you or your friends have a woman that uses s*x to manipulate but dont lump all women in that mess. There are just as many MEN who say no and leave the wives without and *begging for it*. I know this from experience. Ive friends who go thru this as well. So step into this century and get off that *women always manipulate men* bandwagon. Men are NOT always the ones with the short end of the stick..and guess what? Just as many women dont get s*x from their husbands but STILL remain faithful AND keeps her job while continuing to pay bills, take care of any kids and everything else in the home. How do I know this? Because I am one of the women that does it so I can speak on it. You might wanna check your insinuations next time dude.

  4. I’m so happy that I’m not married! Not to say that rape doesn’t happen to single women, because we all know that it does.

    Why is the @ symbol being used instead of “a” in rape? And why are people replying with “s*x” or “***” instead of spelling the word sex? What’s wrong with using these words?

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