The male brain can be tricky to navigate sometimes so it helps when you have a man’s point of view on certain things. Here are some questions and answers from columnist Clint Carter:
1. Why won’t my man kiss me while we are making love?: Men have brains that have evolved to concentrate on one thing at a time so chances are that he is focusing on other things and kissing is not on his mind at the time. On the other hand, if this is the first time that you have slept together it may mean that he is trying not to get too attached and to keep it casual.
2. My husband has started working out and I want to keep him motivated because I am loving the results that he is getting. How do I do this?: He will want to know that what he is doing is working. Show him that you are appreciating the work that he is doing and the results that he is getting through positive reinforcement. Trace your fingers over the definition in his abs or compliment him on how well he has been doing. Another thing that you can do is to work out with him and make it a part of your routine. You can motivate each other even on days when you don’t feel like working out.
3. How do I introduce my new boyfriend to my ex?: This depends on the situation. If you are no longer friends with your ex you can say hello if you bump into him and then explain who he is later. If you are still friends with him, let your boyfriend know before they meet and assess the situation. Introduce them and find something that they have in common so they will have something to talk about other than you.