Why Some Women Have $ex When They Don’t Want To


taking one for the teamBy Staff Blogger

A lot of women who are married or are in monogamous relationships will often say that their man wants to have $ex more frequently that they feel like it. The result is that a lot of women end up having $ex even when they don’t want to. Below are some reasons that women end up rolling in the hay even when they don’t want to:

1. They understand that relationships are give and take – Let’s face it, most men who watch “chick flicks” with their wives and girlfriends typically don’t do it because that’s what they have been looking forward to all week. It is more likely that they do it because they care about her and will tolerate a “chick flick” here and there or will occasionally go shoe shopping with her because that’s what she wants. The same goes for the ladies; even when she is not in the mood for a little “nooky”, she might go along just because she wants to put a smile on her man’s face.

2. They are afraid of losing their man – The truth is that not every woman is completely secure in their relationship and even if they are, maybe their man is not completely trustworthy. Some women will do the do a little more often than they would like because they are afraid their man will get his needs met somewhere else or he will leave and try to find someone more compatible in the bedroom.

3. It’s an exchange – Some women like nice comfortable lives and there are men  who will spend large amounts of money on their woman if she keeps him happy in the bedroom. These women value comfort and security and as long as they feel comfortable and well provided for, they will keep giving their man what he needs in the bedroom, even during the times that they don’t really feel like it

4. It doesn’t take that long – Actual $ex really doesn’t have to take that long so sometimes it may just be easier to say yes and just do it, rather than say no and risk hurting your man’s feelings.

At the end of the day, you might find that even if you started out reluctant, you still end up enjoying yourself! As long as you make the choice and are not forced into the act, having $ex when you you initially didn’t want to may turn out to be just what you needed.



  1. People speak of having sx as if only the man enjoys himself is a two way street.Like most men feel that if they take out a woman for dinner she need to give them some, the thing is that you enjoyed going out, she enjoyed going out and she does not owe you anything. Now if she like you and she wants to do something with you that is up to her but she is not obligated.

  2. Here we go the article isnt about that haie its about women having sex when they dont want too everybody does stuff in the relationship that they might not want to do but thats life and the old saying is if you wont do it someone else will and that comes from most females I bet if a women was to ask for sex even if the male was tired he would still do it because its fun and it doesn’t take long and you both enjoy up at the end. So whats the problem.

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  4. Yeah, I’ve been guilty before of #2. But that was because I was young & dumb. Now I know that I don’t need to “put out” to keep a man. Having sex is not a MUST HAVE for all men – and they don’t all get it from someone else either.

    There are good men out there that are willing to wait if it’s for the woman that they really want – for the ONLY woman that they want. THESE are real men.

  5. Relationships are give and take. Sometimes you step outside yourself and just try and make your partner happy. A little XXX is not the worse thing you can do and long as it is with consent.

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