Why Your New Man Won’t Sleep With You


dateBy Staff Blogger

You have a new man in your life and so far he seems almost perfect. He says and does all the right things but it has been a while since you met and he still doesn’t seem interested in “going all the way”.

Here are some reasons why this seemingly perfect man won’t take the relationship to the next level:

1.  He is gay – In a perfect world, if a man wasn’t romantically interested in a woman, he would make it clear as soon as possible and every gay person would be comfortable disclosing the gender they are attracted to, however it is not always so. Some men are okay with dating women for the sake of appearances. They are not ready to say “I’m gay” and find it easier to date women even though they would rather be with men.

2.. He is cheating – For a lot of men, dating more than one woman and “forgetting” to tell either one of the women seems okay to them. If your new man doesn’t seem too interested in jumping your bones, consider that he may already be jumping another woman’s.

3. He’s overweight – Being overweight , especially if a man has a lot of belly fat, can affect his body’s ability to supply blood to his pen!s. It can also cause your man’s testosterone production to go down. If that is the case, maybe your man does want to get physical, but he just can’t, at least not until he loses some weight.

4. He’s a gentleman or he’s old fashioned – Some men are just “old school” and believe that you should get to know a woman before you take the relationship to the next level. Some believe that $ex should be confined to marriage and he may be waiting for that special moment on his wedding night.

5. He’s just not that into you – Maybe the whole relationship exists more in your head than in real life. Some guys do actually appreciate having women as friends and that’s the category he has put you in.

At the end of the day, the only way to know what is really going on with your man is to have an honest conversation with him. You may not get the answer you’re looking for but at least you’ll know where you stand.



  1. jeffrey perot on

    #6 He waiting to be reasonably sure you are not a psycho and won’t be inextricably bound to him in the event he wants to part unamicably.

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