Most couples prefer to sleep with their spouses in the comfort and privacy of their own homes. Then there are others who are into parties where they either sleep with their spouse with an audience or they sleep with someone else at the party while their spouse watches. This may seem like a strange situation but one couple that met at a s*x party in New York says that going to one every few months is actually keeping their marriage and their s*x life alive.
A woman says that she and her husband will attend a party once every two months or so just to spice things up. There are different types of parties that they go to. One is a “play” party where everyone does things that are not actually interc0urse and everyone keeps their private parts covered. These are often held at clubs or bars. Then there are full parties at someone’s house where everyone does what they wish. The key thing about the parties is that it is not a random group of people hooking up with each other. The people at these parties are screened, they are known by others going, and are often tested for STDs before they are invited to the party.
She met her husband at one of these parties when she was 27 and had first started going to them. He had been going for a while and so he showed her the ropes and explained what the parties were all about. After their relationship became serious they continued to go to the parties but had certain rules. They were allowed to veto someone that their spouse wanted to be with. They never went to the parties without the other there. The woman states that it is a huge turn on for her to watch her husband please another woman because she gets to watch how good he is. She likes when he watches her because it shows trust and intimacy like nothing else.
She states that while this seems strange to most, it works for them and they are happy.