Many people draw the inaccurate assumption that every woman wants to get married and if she doesn’t, it is because there is something wrong with her. Below are some options that a woman has, rather than getting married:
Become a nun – Women who dedicate their life to God are almost the same as married women. Instead of a husband, they have a deep and meaningful relationship with God and they keep their commitment to him until the end of their life.
Get to Know Yourself and Love yourself – Many women are so desperate for a man that they spend too much time going from relationship to relationship, hoping the next one will be “the one”. How about spending time getting to know yourself and learning to have a healthy love and respect for yourself? If “Mr. Right” comes along, he will be more likely to stick around if you’re a confident, self respecting woman. In the mean time, enjoy new experiences and learn about yourself and the world around you. Maybe you can even find a way to be of service to your community or to a cause of your choice. Even if you never get married, you will have lived a meaningful life.
Shack up – It’s your life and you can do with it what you want -right? Well, consider how a person treats a house that they rent, as opposed to one that they own…Yes, you’re not a house, but you get the point.
Have a baby – Many women are not waiting to get married to enjoy the pleasure of being called mommy. Not every unmarried woman had her baby by accident; some women will even go to a sperm bank because they feel they are ready to have a baby. No problem-right? Well, consider that even though you have the baby that you want, you are robbing that baby of their best life, which is growing up in a loving home with two parents who are committed to each other and give the child a healthy and happy home.
Sleep with whoever you want, when ever you want and don’t bother with protection– You only live once-right? Sure; it’s a free country and as long as you and your “friends” are consenting adults, no one can accuse you of breaking the law. We just hope you have good health insurance so you can get treatment for all those $exually transmitted diseases you’re bound to get. Also, we hope you have a big house so you can have a place to leave all your kids while you go to court to pursue all their fathers for child support.
Tell yourself a lie – You can tell yourself that “there are no good men” or that men “can’t handle strong sista” like you or “they are all gay, married or in prison”. There’s many, many more. That’s the fun part of telling yourself a lie; anything you can make up to suite you will work.